The Bride Makes Herself Ready

The Bride Makes Herself Ready

The Way Prepared

As we saw in our study of Esther, the Bride must prepare herself, and must make herself ready for the soon-returning Bridegroom. But because we have all heard various conflicting teachings and opinions of the Bride’s preparation, we must avoid error, by looking to the clear teaching of Scripture alone.

In this writing we will look at certain features of what Scripture says about the Preparation of the Bride. We will see who prepares the Bride, and most importantly, when and where this preparation takes place.

As we go into this study, there may be many who have un-answered questions. For example, we might ask, “Do we become prepared in the “twinkling of an eye” when we go to be with the King?”

Some may ask, “Isn’t it enough to be Born Again?” A few may ask, “Is there some particular preparation that Born-Again Believers must do, over some period of time while living in this life on earth?”

We then realise that the Scriptures reveal the answers! Our Father has given us very many witnesses of Scripture, from which we may draw our conclusions. So let’s look at the Scriptures.

Who Prepares the Bride?

First, let us see who does the preparing. As we saw in our study of Esther, all the things necessary for Esther’s preparation were given to her — but it was Esther herself who did the preparing. Let’s look at how Esther’s preparation is a pattern for us today.

Notice the following passages:

Let us be glad and rejoice, and give honour to him: for the marriage of the Lamb is come, and his wife hath made herself ready. (Revelation 19:7)

And to her was granted that she should be arrayed in fine linen, clean and white: for the fine linen is the righteousness <1345> of saints. (Revelation 19:8)

In the above passages, in verse 7, we see the Betrothed Wife — the Bride — has made herself ready. Notice that it was the Wife who made the preparation. We also see in context, that the Lamb speaks of our Bridegroom-Messiah, and His (Betrothed) Wife speaks of the company of those Believers who choose to make themselves ready.

In verse 8, we see her ‘array’ (her clothing and covering) was granted, or given to her, by the Holy Spirit. We also see that this clothing is of linen, which we are told speaks of the righteousness <1345> [“righteous deeds; actions”] of the set-apart Believers.

So the preparation of the Bride involves the Bride’s action, as well as the action of the Holy Spirit. Both are necessary. This two-fold process is confirmed in Esther:

And the maiden pleased him, and she obtained kindness of him; and he speedily gave her her things for purification, with such things as belonged to her, and seven maidens, which were meet to be given her, out of the king’s house: and he preferred her and her maids unto the best place of the house of the women. (Esther 2:9)

Here we see that Hegai, the eunuch, as well as the seven maidens given to her, all picture the Holy Spirit, given to the Bride to provide help, and to provide everything that is needed to the Bride for her purification — her preparation. In Esther 2:9, notice the two-fold process that made up her preparation: (1) “he speedily gave her;” and (2) “with such things as belonged to her.”

The preparation of the Bride of Messiah is a co-operation between the Holy Spirit, and the Bride.

When and Where is the Bride Prepared?

Next we will address the question, “When does this preparation take place — after going in to the presence of the King — or before?” Is the Bride prepared in heaven — or on earth? Again we will look at a few passages in Esther:

Now when every maid’s turn was come to go in to king Ahasuerus, after that she had been twelve months, according to the manner of the women, (for so were the days of their purifications accomplished, to wit, six months with oil of myrrh, and six months with sweet odours, and with other things for the purifying of the women;) Then thus came every maiden unto the king… (Esther 2:12b-13a)

Notice also that Esther’s preparation was over a twelve-month period of time, which was six months of one preparation, and six months of another. And it was all to be done before going into the presence of the King.

Let’s look further. Let’s look at the following Bride preparation passages in Matthew 25:1-13:

Matthew 25:1-13

  1.  Then shall the kingdom of heaven be likened unto ten virgins, which took their lamps, and went forth to meet the bridegroom.
  2.  And five of them were wise, and five were foolish.
  3.  They that were foolish took their lamps, and took no oil with them:
  4.  But the wise took oil in their vessels with their lamps.
  5.  While the bridegroom tarried, they all slumbered and slept.
  6.  And at midnight there was a cry made, Behold, the bridegroom cometh; go ye out to meet him.
  7.  Then all those virgins arose, and trimmed their lamps.
  8.  And the foolish said unto the wise, Give us of your oil; for our lamps are gone out.
  9.  But the wise answered, saying, Not so; lest there be not enough for us and you: but go ye rather to them that sell, and buy for yourselves.
  10.  And while they went to buy, the bridegroom came; and they that were ready went in with him to the marriage: and the door was shut.
  11.  Afterward came also the other virgins, saying, Lord, Lord, open to us.
  12.  But he answered and said, Verily I say unto you, I know you not.
  13.  Watch therefore, for ye know neither the day nor the hour wherein the Son of man cometh.

In the above parable, five Virgins were called wise, and 5 were called foolish. There are two groups — a wise group and a foolish group. What were the two groups based on?

We see in verse 10, “They that were ready” went in with him to the marriage. In verse 11 we see the “Other Virgins” who came afterwards, but they could not enter in.

The first thing we notice is that the five Wise Virgins had wisdom. The five Foolish Virgins, however, lacked Wisdom.

Furthermore, the Ten Virgins were divided into two groups, based on being “Ready.” Those Virgins that had Wisdom had prepared themselves ahead of time, and they were Ready to go in with the Bridegroom, when He arrived.

Those that lacked Wisdom, however, had not prepared themselves. They were not yet Ready.

Notice that the five Wise Virgins were “Ready” before going in with the Bridegroom to the marriage.


We are led to conclude that the reason the Foolish Virgins were not allowed to enter in when the Bridegroom came, is because they were NOT YET READY.

The Foolish Virgins were perhaps unaware that they were not ready. They had been Born-again, but had not personally sought the Bridegroom in the Scriptures, nor had they sought those things of Wisdom necessary for their preparation, that the Bridegroom gives to all liberally, to all who ask Him (James 1:5).

And so the group of Foolish Virgins were divided from the group of Wise Virgins.

This division confirms what we have seen thus far — that being ready, being prepared, is a requirement to be met, in order to be allowed to enter in with the bridegroom — and that this preparation must occur BEFORE the arrival of the Bridegroom.

We may now conclude that the preparation of the Bride is NOT done in heaven, but only on earth, before going in with the Bridegroom.

Let us be glad and rejoice, and give honour to him:
for the marriage of the Lamb is come,
and his wife hath made herself ready.
(Revelation 19:7)

Next: How Does the Bride Prepare? – A detailed description of the Bride’s prophetic cleansing and clothing

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